Also, she turned 9 last weekend. We went to the lake for the day and had dinner at her favorite sushi bar.
and now Suzanne has something to say about Chickadee
and now Suzanne has something to say about belly-button lint
Read the two posts directly below this one, then multiply that times as many days as I haven't posted, and then you have some reason why I've been so quiet. And I don't even blog the worst of it.
and now Suzanne has something to say about trauma and drama
This is an excerpt from a conversation I am having with a student about his research paper on Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. What do you think?
Also, and I am just thinking out loud here, why is this a disorder? My children (adopted from a Siberian orphanage) both carry PTSD diagnosis. Really bad things happened to them. Their brains responded to the stress by changing and my childrens' lives will be forever impacted by it and not in a good way. I get that. But why is it a disorder? The brain behaved in a perfectly normal way. Doesn't the word disorder mean that something is not working as it should? But in my opinion, if a person goes through trauma and is not impacted by it they have the disorder. I guess I'd like it to be called Post-Traumatic Stress Normal Response. Yes there is still the nightmares and the cold sweats on a trauma triggers and the weird immune system. I guess I think that this is normal.
Put another way, if you expose your skin to flame you get a wound, and later a scar. If your brain is exposed to trauma it gets a wound and later a scar. The scar is real, certainly. And it is bad news, no doubt. But is it a disorder? I get fussy because it seems to me that there is a slight implication that my children -- and servicemen and women -- are not handling the stress appropriately, that their Post Traumatic Stress management is malfunctioning (disorder), yet I would say that my children are perfectly normal. ANY child exposed to this would have some freaky after-effects. Their Post Traumatic Stress management is spot-on, just as the scar tissue is over a burn. Service-people that come home altered are showing their scars. Acknowledge the scars, nuture the person, but don't tell me they are disordered.
and now Suzanne has something to say about critters
I am the wife of a man I call My Gift from a Generous God. I am mama to two lovely children, Dandy and Chickadee that became ours in September 2006 in a court-room in Siberia. I am the daughter of two people whom I love and admire. One of them, my dad, is a new (Dec 06) paraplegic.
In my previous life (B.C. - before children), I was a college English teacher, specializing in composition and ESL composition.:: click here to read my 8 things meme